Guide to our wedding day!

• Guests arriving from @12pm 
• Prelude @12.30pm with Caoimhe McAlister (she/they), Harpist
  
• Ceremony @1pm
  
• Cake and Toasting @2.15pm
  
• Cocktails & Craic @3pm with Scott Flanigan (he/him), Jazz Pianist
• Dinner @4.45pm
• Let’s Party! From @7pm with Kara Kalua (she/her) & Dan the Man (he/him)!
• Cabaret Drag Show & Bingo @8pm
• Light Refreshments @930pm
• Disco @9.30pm until late! w Special Guest DJ Marion Hawkes (last call, 1am*)

• Our wedding is all about Queer joy!  Wear whatever makes you feel fabulous!
• Given the unpredictable weather, bring an umbrella or rainjacket and something warm! (especially if you want to explore the grounds & hang on the patio)

• A Queer AF wedding that centres love, authenticity and joy! We want all our guests to feel welcome and have a relaxed and fun time.
  
• A non-traditional wedding with a sprinkle of tradition mixed in to best reflect our relationship, love, values, identities, and life together.
• A full vegan menu, including afternoon refreshments, dinner, and light supper. 
• Prosecco, wine, bottled beers and soft drinks will be served during cocktail hour and dinner.
• A fully-stocked cash bar (accepting cards or cash) will be available until 1am. In addition, the hotel has a separate restaurant and bar where you can purchase other food and drinks until late.

• We are using gender-neutral language around our wedding as much as possible. We are learning with you!
• Keeping our terminology gender-neutral is a simple yet powerful way we can all create a more inclusive and affirming celebration for us and our guests. For example, you can say, “partner”, “spouse”, “couple”, “newlyweds”, etc., instead of other gendered terms.
• If you’re unsure what term or word to use, feel free to ask. There are also many language guides online that can assist you.